Mum who fell ill suddenly moves to hospice to ‘pass away in her own time’

A dedicated mum-of-three who collapsed when getting her children ready for school has been transferred to a hospice to “pass away in her own time” after suffering from brain damage.

Gemma Louise Tuck had just gotten her children, Charlie and Cameron aged three and eight-year-old Callum, up and ready for school on the morning of March 17, 2021, before she suddenly passed out and suffered a cardiac arrest.

It is believed that the mum from Manchester had not suffered from any heart problems before, reports Wales Online.

Gemma’s younger sister, Nicole Reed, stated: “She woke up at about six o’clock to get her boys up and her partner could hear weird noises coming from the bathroom and found her on the floor unconscious.

“Whilst the ambulance was on the way, he tried to get her breathing again but he couldn’t.

“She was unconscious for around twenty minutes, they finally got her conscious in hospital and she’s been in an induced coma ever since then.”

In hospital, Gemma suffered a number of seizures due to the brain damage she had suffered from being unconscious for so long.

In hospital, Gemma suffered a number of seizures due to the brain damage she had suffered from being unconscious for so long
In hospital, Gemma suffered a number of seizures due to the brain damage she had suffered from being unconscious for so long
(Image: Family handout)

Gemma was later diagnosed with long QT syndrome, a condition affecting the heart rhythm patterns.

“I think the time between falling at home and getting to hospital, she had four cardiac arrests,” Nicole said.

“Long QT syndrome is a very rare condition, it’s either passed down or it’s a genetic mutation.

“Me, my mum and her kids are going to have to get checked over to see if we have it.”

In hospital, Gemma’s family were unaware of the severity of her condition until a neuroscientist confirmed the hospital’s initial concerns at the end of June.

“The hospital had done some tests and there were concerns she was in a vegetative state but a professional came down from Oxford to assess her and confirmed it,” Nicole explained.

Gemma was transferred to the hospice on September 7.

“It just depends how long it will take for Gemma to pass away,” Nicole says.

“It could take three days, seven days, two weeks – it just depends.

“Because of her state in the brain, she can’t feel pain or anything so she won’t be uncomfortable when she goes.

“We’ve told the doctors to give her some pain killers just for our own peace of mind so that we know she’s not in pain.”

Nicole added that the last few months have been extremely hard on the family, but more so on Gemma’s eldest son, Callum.

“He has low-functioning autism so he can tell you what he wants but he just can’t to you about it,” she explains.

“Before all of this, he wasn’t sensitive to noise at all, he didn’t cry or show emotion.

“He had to watch it all happen, he just stood there at his baby gates and watched his mum fall to the floor and he just ran to his bed in tears.

“Ever since then he hates the sound of an ambulance, he can’t tell us how it’s affected him but we know he’s finding it really tough.”

Her family said they want to focus on the ‘many brilliant’ aspects of Gemma and ensure her three children don’t ever go without.

A fundraiser has been set up to help cover the costs of Gemma’s funeral and to ensure her boys have a really special Christmas - their first one without their mum
A fundraiser has been set up to help cover the costs of Gemma’s funeral and to ensure her boys have a really special Christmas – their first one without their mum
(Image: Family handout)

A fundraiser has been set up to help cover the costs of Gemma’s funeral and to ensure her boys have a really special Christmas – their first one without their mum.

“Gemma has always been a very independent person,” Nicole says.

“We used to work nights together at a casino in Manchester, we were very close.

“She was a very bubbly, loud person and would never let anyone tell her how to do things, she always had to do things her own way.

“She’s the nicest and most genuine person I’ve ever met in my life. She would go out of her way to make sure everyone was okay before herself.

“She was never quiet, she laughed all the time and you’d always know when she was in the room with you.”

The fundraiser for Gemma has now almost surpassed £3,000.

Nicole said she was moved by the kindness of the friends and family who have donated but also to the strangers who have contributed.

Writing on the page, Nicole said: “For anyone seeing this who did not know Gemma, she was full of life, always lit up the room when she walked in.

“She is the most amazing human I have ever met, I am blessed for life to be her little sister.”

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